Monday, February 2, 2009

FRIENDSHIP

Dedicated to all my FRIENDS...

We were born and then anyone who took care of us, made us laugh, played with us,were our friends.

We grew up, started kinder garden. The one sitting next to us was our friend.

We further grew up, started primary school.Now anyone who shared a pencil with us, became our friend. Anyone who was a part of our prank became our friend. Anyone who shared lunch with us was our friend.

How good it would have been, if we could freeze time around here. When friendship was all about innocence,happiness,laughter.....

But time never freezes it goes on...

We started high school, now friendship wasn't so easy. It involved trust, patience, endurance, knowing about each other, keeping secrets, being there for each other and many more.

We enjoyed this phase of friendship, but it wasn't all laughter we had, a lot of tears we shared too..

We are out of school, stepping into a new world college.We are given the opportunity to take our own decisions.We meet different people, some quiet, some loud, some flashy, some simple, some open, some mysterious, altogether a different one from us.We try to merge in, into this group of diverse personalities, at the same time trying to stand out as an individual.Here friendship is lot more than trust, patience and endurance. Apart from all these we learn harsh reality. People change everyday, what was liked yesterday maybe despised today. In this world we find friends, despite of our differences who match our wavelength. We learn to look at them, for the good in them.We learn to accept and adapt to the changes. We dawn upon that fact that friendship is not a simple relationship anymore. We also realize, some friendships that begun, just with a pencil has depths that can last a lifetime.

Big or Small, Long or Short, Happy or Moody, Weak or Strong, Silent or Chatterbox, FRIENDS are always FRIENDS:)

4 comments:

  1. i noe....i wish i cud go back 2 de tym when frienship was all bout who shared ur lunches n who never told on u even when he/she got caught. i guess even now friendship still can remain simple but v jus hv 2 go n complicate everything.....:(
    n yeah its amazing how those simple friendships forged a lifetime ago over (like u said) a shared pencil can in several cases remain stronger than de 1s v forge in college after a lotta analysis. oh god... i'm thinking too much

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  2. Welcome to blogosphere! Nice to see you here.
    "Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart” - Eleanor Roosevelt
    Keep them coming.
    Cheers,
    Salil

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  3. at divya,

    very true da,but whatever mayb the scenerio,just cant live without these FRIENDS:)

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  4. "Wounded Knees are better than Broken Hearts"

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